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Are you struggling with fear or anxiety around pregnancy or birth?

Hello, I’m Alexia!

Whether you’re feeling anxious about birth or struggling with tokophobia, you’re in the right place.

I can help you clear your
fears and anxieties – quickly and effectively.

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Tokophobia

I’m Struggling with Tokophobia

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I’m Pregnant & Feeling Anxious

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What is tokophobia?

It’s NOT just “normal birth nerves”.

It’s NOT something you can “just get over”.

It IS a real, deep-rooted fear response.

It IS treatable.

Do you suffer from it?

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would you like us to work together?

I work with women all over the world to help them to heal and activate their inner power and resilience.

I support women in overcoming their deep-rooted fears and traumas so that they can live fearlessly.

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  • Why tokophobia is more common than you think
  • The surprising ways it could be impacting your life
  • The likely cause of your fears, and how to address them
  • Your options for overcoming your fears and anxieties

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Fearless Birthing is a unique approach to clearing fears and anxiety. And it works. FAST.

“Thanks so much to you, I can honestly say I’m entering into my final weeks of pregnancy fear free. I’m just excited – I feel like everyday is Christmas Eve!

I can honestly say I’m looking forward to labor and delivery!

Thank you! Thank you! THANK YOU for your podcast and book – they’re game changers!”

Zoe

the latest from the blog…

Can You Overcome Tokophobia? (Yes – Here’s How)

This is the question I am asked more than any other, usually with a held breath behind it. And it is the one I most love to answer, because the answer is a big, clear yes. I know that for certain, not just because I overcame my own tokophobia, but because I have watched hundreds…

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Tokophobia and Your Relationship

I avoided the conversation about children with my own partner for eight years. Eight years. That is how powerfully tokophobia can sit in the middle of a relationship without ever being named. When I finally faced it, so much that had quietly strained us started to make sense, and to ease.

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Reproductive Anxiety Disorder (RAD): The Complete Framework

I spent years terrified of pregnancy and birth without ever having been pregnant. There was no traumatic birth in my past, because there was no birth in my past. Just a deep, physical dread I could not explain and did not have a word for. When I finally understood what I was carrying, I realised…

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The Fear Funnel Explained: How Fear of Birth Takes Hold

When I look back at my own fear, I can see now that it did not appear the day I thought about getting pregnant. It had been building quietly for most of my life. I just had no idea it was happening. That is the thing about this fear: by the time you notice it,…

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The RAD Spiral: How Fear Becomes Trauma (and How It Heals)

One of the things that frightened me most, once I understood my own fear, was the thought of passing it on. I did not want to hand my daughter a fear of her own body before she ever had a chance to know it differently. That thought is what made me certain this work was…

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In-Utero and Birth Imprint Trauma

When I first came across the idea that we carry an imprint from our own time in the womb and our birth, the sceptic in me bristled. Then I worked with it, in myself and in hundreds of women, and watched things release that had no business being there if it were not true. I…

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